Neuro Affective Relational Model (NARM) and The Wisdom Of Trauma.
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"The best thing you can do for your kids is do your own work". — IRIS MCALPIN. 12 Questions on The NARM Model of Self Inquiry
3 Responses to 12 NARM Questions as answered by Iris McAlpin Read the full original article here More information about NARM as developed by Dr. Laurence Heller over the course of his 45 year clinical career is available from the NARM site here. Or watch the introductory video below. "The best thing you can do for your kids is do your own work" IRIS MCALPIN. Question 8 What can we do to ensure that we don’t traumatize our own children the way we were traumatized, especially since that’s the template we know? I know people don’t like to hear this, but even the most well intentioned parents in the world will likely do or say something (or not do or say something) that leaves a traumatic wound. That does not make you a bad parent, it makes you human. The best thing you can do for your kids is to do your own work. See a therapist , coach or other trained mental health professional. Get support. Do what you can to fo...
Dr. Julie Brown Yau’s 30-year background in psychological, somatic, and spiritual traditions provides a unique depth of knowledge and experience.
"As our conception of consciousness expands to include what was once unconscious, a greater awareness develops that embraces others, the natural world and the cosmos, while potentiating opening to primordial awareness." "The manifestation of the imaginal may allow one to reclaim their authenticity, and to open to the truth of nondual awareness, or simply the inclusion of the imaginal in one’s everyday practice will assist with one’s growth and illumination." Dr. Julie Brown Yau Biography "I have a 33-year background in psychological, somatic, and spiritual traditions, which provides a unique depth of knowledge and experience. Born from a fascination of what lies below our conscious awareness, and how trauma shapes our lives, I gained a PhD in somatic depth psychology, and master’s degrees in both spiritual psychology and depth psychology. I specialize in developmental, inherited, and shock trauma, and have studied and taught with some of ...
Dr. MatΓ© weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them.
Awakening is understanding we have a voice in our mind that is the ego. Our ego has an endless stream of opinions, ‘truths’ and beliefs about who we are and who other people are. The ego is our protector, keeping us in the familiar cycles we grew up in. When we become more aware of the ego, we can understand we are not our thoughts. We aren’t our opinions. We aren’t our past. We aren’t our endless stream of identities. This is how we become free from our own suffering (much of our suffering doesn’t actually come from the events we experience, it comes from the meaning we assign to those experiences) Beware The Second Arrow! Our egos have been working to protect us, they need continued love and guidance in the integrative repair. “The whole thing about The One is that it pretends to be many. Here, that’s the gimmick. The game of hide and seek is dismemberment, falling apart. Losin...
Drink Up!!!! Or Not...? Depends on The Quality. And Depth. Of The Water, Whiskey or Whine... "Pebble, Pond, Ripple, Simple!"
YOUR CORE VALUES ARE THE HUB FROM WHICH ALL ELSE RADIATES. DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOURS ARE? I CHOOSE TO LIVE MY YOGA OFF THE MAT INTO THE REAL WORLD. I MEDITATE AND RELATE ON AND IN REAL LIFE, NOT IN A CAVE NOT IN A TEMPLE I ALSO CHOOSE TO LIVE MY UNWAVERING CORE VALUES AS MY SELF SUPPORTING RADIANT HUB. PEBBLE POND RIPPLE SIMPLE INTEGRITY ~ KINDNESS ~ AUTHENTICITY ~ JOY NOT PERFECT, JUST HEADING FOR WHOLENESS, MESSY AND FLOWING DOING THE INNER PRUNING WORK, MOMENT TO MOMENT WITH AS MUCH GRACE AS I CAN HUMANLY MUSTER AND I STILL SWEAR I SWEAR TOO MUCH Fire trUCK OFF TONY? WHY SO SERIOUS? GET OUT OF MY OWN WAY ... DO YOU GET THE GREAT COSMIC JOKE? YET? NEVER TELL or SELL or YELL ANYONE ANYTHING... LIVE & LET LIVE, COMMUNE IN COMMUNITY SOVEREIGN, INTER DEPENDENT, KIND AND ALIGNED HELP SUPPORT CARE AND LOVE LIKE A MUDDA DUCKER BUT DO NOT ENABLE OR SAVE OTHER GROWN ASS ADULTS THATS EACH PERSONS OWN JOB. TO BE THEIR OWN INNER PILOT LIGHT OF DECO...