We Have All Been Conditioned By Our Family of Origin. Accept That Fact and Life Opens If you want a fake friendship, ignore your own needs and be a people pleaser. If you want an acquaintanceship to remain superficial, ignore your own core values and discerning intuition. If you want a fake relationship, avoid conflict. Be authentic, be centred and grounded in knowing what's best for your peace and growth. Walk away from events. people and locations that repeatedly violate your stated core values and/or boundaries. If you want a real relationship, learn to listen and respond, concurrently, during times of activation. That is being a grown ass adult who knows who they are, what they deserve and has the space to hold another safe at exactly the same time. Don't like whiners and whingers and moaners and chaos drama creators? Leave the room. Don't like gambling or cigarettes or drugs or drunks? Stop frequenting places they are used. Don't like dogma, shepherds,...