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Please Parents, No More Passing On Your Own Chaotic, Wounded Insecure Childhood Attachment Patterns. Stop Projecting and Controlling and Creating Fear Full "Mini Me's". Parents Who Refuse To Listen, Lack Presence, Scare Their Children and Place Conditions on Love. Just. Stop. It. Please Do Your Own Reflective Inner Work and Healing.

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Neuro Affective Relational Model (NARM) and The Wisdom Of Trauma.

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Warning – Disclaimer: Anyone not wanting to be ‘enlightened’ should close this page on their electronic device and stop reading immediately. Everyone is the enlightenment Itself. Enlightened already (being able to read this page you would have to be!) – we just don’t know it.

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Here is the paradox. In our Humility, we are Giants.

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If you heard this often from a person you had a close attachment with in childhood: “You’re so dramatic” “Stop being overly sensitive” “You’re so moody!” “Smile, there’s no reason to be sad” “You should feel x ... “ You’ll most likely have internalized a core message:  “Some thing is wrong with the way I feel.  Some emotions are bad and I shouldn’t have them.” This is the beginning of the loss of connection to the authentic whole self. (#atmavidya)  This is when we inherit someone else's "terms and conditions". This is when the developing psyche is exposed (subconscious conditioning/subtle energy) and can be innocently (or maliciously) passed on from our family of origin and/or principal care providers.  This is when we may adapt to cope and start denying, avoiding, and internalizing our emotions. Energy gets trapped and "The Body Keeps The Score". We may unconsciously repress our somatic bodies true nature which is to express and release all energy in motion (...

Step Off The Mindless Hamster Wheel, Stop The Burnouts and Throwing Up Rocks in A Vacuous Cloud of Dust. Slow Down To Grow Up. Concurrent Presence, Purpose, Grace and Kindness.

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We Have All Been Conditioned By Our Family of Origin. Accept That Fact and Life Opens If you want a fake friendship, ignore your own needs and be a people pleaser. If you want an acquaintanceship to remain superficial, ignore your own core values and discerning intuition.  If you want a fake relationship, avoid conflict. Be authentic, be centred and grounded in knowing what's best for your peace and growth.  Walk away from events. people and locations that repeatedly violate your stated core values and/or boundaries. If you want a real relationship, learn to listen and respond, concurrently, during times of activation. That is being a grown ass adult who knows who they are, what they deserve and has the space to hold another safe at exactly the same time.  Don't like whiners and whingers and moaners and chaos drama creators? Leave the room.  Don't like gambling or cigarettes or drugs or drunks? Stop frequenting places they are used.  Don't like dogma, shepherds,...

Feeling Stuck For Your Soul and Studiously Stagnant in a Tiny Tight Intellectual Box, Leave The Screen, The Busy Bullshit Burdens and Simply Return Back to The Simplicity of Thriving.

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Holy Darkness: A Tantric Opus by Maya Luna with Pattern Disrupt "Lately I am reflecting on how many humans have been medicated or diagnosed or institutionalized for having a human experience that is outside of the box of what is considered “normal” and “healthy”. How many mystics and geniuses have not been understood. How many people having a healthy response to trauma have been deemed pathological or broken. How deeply we reject the speaking through wounds when wounds are open mouths that have things to speak. How binding and limiting our understanding of psychological health is.  How little reverence we hold for the wild initiations of chaos and psyche that erupt from the human soul. How much therapy has been prescribed for people who really needed art or revolutions or an accurate mirror for their brilliance. The cruelty of fixing what was never broken. The cruelty of limitations and attempts to cure.   The wisdom of what breaks us down and cracks us open to reveal The...

10 Signs of Secure Attachment in Adults

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Do Not Merely Skim This. Or Spiritually Bypass With Pretention, Arrogance or Entitled Prophet Motive. Actually, In Reality, Here and Now Absorb The Essence Slowly, Fully and Deliberately. And Then Read It Care Fully and Deeply Again.

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The Four Agreements

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Does This Resonate? If so Why? If Not, Why? Be Curious Where Any Energetic Response Comes From.

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How Deep Is Your Love?  Of Self? #atmavidya