Deeper Instinct Chooses.
“Instinct is the part of us, as in all animals, that knows without thinking what and when to do something, how to respond, which way to go. Like the salmon that swims its way across hundreds of river miles to its birthplace, we too have inborn impulses that don’t require thinking to get us there. Instinct is our “right responsiveness” guiding us towards our yesses, and away from our noes. For many of us, however, this instinct has been so blunted, domesticated and harnessed for its resources that we barely recognize its call. Instead of being taught to protect yourself from things or people who might do you harm, you may have learned to distrust your own feelings, boundaries, and reactions. If you grow accustomed to overriding your responses, over time you stop being able to recognize intrusions and violations. You may have delayed reactions to poor behaviour. You may have even find yourself dwelling on moments in which you wish you’d said or done somethin...