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THINGS TO NEVER COMPROMISE IN A RELATIONSHIP: 1. Your self respect — love should never require you to shrink yourself. 2. Your personal boundaries — a partner who ignores them will only push further. 3. Your close friendships — isolation from loved ones is a red flag, not romance. 4. Your career and personal ambitions — the right person will celebrate your growth. 5. Your mental and emotional peace — anxiety should not be your baseline in love. 6. Your core values — compromising who you are to keep someone is not love, it is loss. 7. Your financial independence — never become fully dependent on a partner by force. 8. Your physical safety — there is no version of love that involves feeling afraid. 9. Your relationship with your family — love should add to your life, not cut it off. 10. Your right to honesty — you deserve the full truth, not a comfortable version of it. 11. Your ability to express disagreement — silence to keep peace is slow self erasure. 12. Your personal time ...

Mindfulness is the aware, balanced acceptance of the present experience. It isn’t more complicated than that.  Mindful Awareness is opening to or receiving the present moment, pleasant or unpleasant, just as it is, without either clinging to it or rejecting it. Mindful acceptance of life is the simple present moment realisation of pattern conditioning . Including any remaining limiting beliefs ; mind attachment to religious vacuity, mind attachment to inter generational limitations ,   family of origin limitations or social limitations such as inherited mind attachments, lack of discerning boundaries ,   people pleasing , perfectionism and procrastination .  Stand for something or you may find yourself falling for (or hooking up with…)anything.   Living a grace full life is simply letting each present moment be exactly as it is, one  moment to each fresh moment.  Remove your true natured self, sooner not later, from any energy that is perpetually a...

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Tantra : The Supreme Understanding by Prem Aakash FROM LOVE NOT FOR LOVE. 💕  The shakti flows more naturally through someone who is deeply in touch with the feminine , which is oftentimes the woman. Therefore when the woman is fully aroused, once her entire body is loved and worshipped, she will open her yoni , she will be fully orgasmic, and she will share the nectar of the depth of her being with you. When the entire system is activated women can access amazing arousal states and discover their deep erotic nature. Then you will be able to ride her waves of pleasure and expand into the magnetic field of your union .⁣⁣ Sex is not about your/her pleasure, it is about cultivating something that is beyond you or her, that is more than the sum of its parts... A field that you can expand into together, and become infinitely vast.⁣⁣ So... the deeper you go, the deeper she opens... and it affects both of you. ⁣⁣⁣Photo above by @mariefeandjakesnow⁣  

"I realized that If I get frustrated everyday about a child’s behaviour but never put in the work for MYSELF and my own behaviour then nothing will change. Not only will nothing change, but I will not offer them the right tools as well. It’s all about us in the end. And that’s a heavy load to carry but it is possible to make changes and create parenting goals to thrive!" ~ Cindy   Science of Parenting Translating child development and parenting research findings into digestible & applicable advice @curiousneuronpodcast 👇🏻Free parent support  www.curiousneuron.com/familymeetings View this post on Instagram A post shared by Cindy • Science of Parenting (@curious_neuron)

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Dr. Gordon Neufeld discusses the way our capacity for relationship is meant to develop and why this development is so necessary. Each of the six phases of attachment create a new way to connect to a range of people (from birth parents to life partners and your own children and everyone in between ... ).  For me, this wonderful in depth seminar really warms up around the 1 hour 5 minute mark and continues so until the awesome summary.  Skip there if time is short and you are busy...  If not, grab a coffee, get comfy and listen.  The life long extensive attachment research that Dr Neufeld generously shares in this broad ranging talk is simply fascinating. Or is that just me...? Relationship Nerd Alert... So happy to Be that too.  Especially the juicy bits on "premature digital intimacy"... made enormous sense in this "permanent part time attention" era of the fractious digital age. AKA lack of presence ... lack of consciousness... lack of depth and awareness... la...

Talking to children about separation and relocation. Children need to be told that their parents are separating. They don’t usually need to know the reasons why the separation occurred. When you talk to your children about separation keep it simple, and keep it centred on the basic, objective facts. Try to keep the discussions future focussed, describe the arrangements for future parenting, and explain how you think it might make things better. Reassure them about the love of both their parents. Research shows that the more exposure the children get to the separation issues, and the conflict between parents, the worse it is for children. When parents involve children in the negative details of their personal affairs it undermines their relationships with them and with their other parent. It also harms the child’s ability to function well. The less exposure children have to conflict and the details of their parents’ relationship breakdown, the better they do. Tips for talking to childre...

"Many parents command the behaviour they want to see their kids complete...and then wonder why their children don’t seem to listen or remember it. ⁠ Curiosity questions help us get into our child’s world by learning to really listen and “draw forth” rather than trying to “stuff in.” Curiosity questions not only help our children develop the critical thinking skills necessary for making decisions in life, but they also help our children feel a sense of belonging and significance – their voice and their viewpoint are heard and valued.⁠ Sometimes curiosity questions can be very simple (one question). Sometimes, they can involve more questions to help children explore the consequences of the choices (as opposed to imposing consequences on them).⁠ ⁠ Notice your own resistance to just listening without trying to fix it or change a thing. Notice how difficult it is to listen to what your child has to say without wanting him or her to give you the answer you hope they will give. Practice ...

 

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Let Us Not Stand With Those Who Deny Others' Lived Experience Let Us Not Stand With Those Who Deny Others' Lived Experience Be Curious of Your Family Of Origin Conditioning Ask Better Questions,  Explore More,  Go Within,  Get Still.  Dive Deeper, Peel heal and reveal.  Welcome Home  The Expansive Calm Growth Gifts  of Your Unconscious Shadow Patterns.  This is Choosing Self Knowledge Wholeness, Unity, The Grounded Bliss. Of The Always Ever Present  You. Cease The Controlling. You Can't Fix, rescue or save others.  You Can Only Love Them As They Need To Be Loved.  Are You Yet Listening?  To Them...