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Lelia Schott, "Neuro Emotional Parent Coach"

"People are their own best experts.  As a facilitator, I help clients learn how to integrate their experiences  into their bodies and minds, unlocking emotional sovereignty  and supporting their relationships."  by Lelia Schott "The term "delinquency" is frequently used in a disrespectful and misleading manner. Nonetheless, in academic contexts, it refers specifically to the criminal or seriously harmful antisocial behaviors exhibited by young individuals I'm writing this article, drawing inspiration from Dr. Gordon Neufeld's valuable insights. He is a thoughtful leader in parenting, education, psychology, and therapy, promoting a nurturing approach beyond traditional methods focused solely on behavior. Dr. Neufeld emphasizes the importance of love, care, and a responsive relationship between caregivers and children. These elements are crucial for helping children grow emotionally and socially. The Roots of Delinquency To effectively prevent youth deli...

How Awesome Are Parents? Really!

 Thank You Awesome Parents!  The Many Who Do The Inner Work Of Self Healing.  View this post on Instagram A post shared by Lelia Schott ♡ Parent Coach (@synergy.parenting)

Parenting and The Institute of Child Psychology and The Gottman Institute

“Much of today’s popular advice to parents ignores emotion”  says Dr. Gottman.  “Instead it relies on child-rearing theories that address children’s misbehaviour, but disregards the feelings that underlie that misbehaviour.  The ultimate goal of raising children should not be simply to have an obedient and compliant child.  Most parents hope for much more for their children.” Gottman’s research also discovered that love by itself wasn’t enough.  “We found that concerned, warm, and involved parents often had attitudes toward their and their children’s emotions that got in the way … when the child was sad or afraid or angry,” he writes.  “The secret to being an emotionally intelligent parent lay in how parents interacted with their children when emotions ran hot.” "The researchers ultimately determined that successful parents tended to do five very simple things with their children when they were emotional.  Gottman calls these five elements “Emotion Coa...