TRUE ♾️ NATURE

Intentional Maturity in A Free Flowing Co Created Relationship If you truly want your relationship to survive and grow stronger over time, you must be willing to cut off anything that makes your partner uncomfortable or insecure. This includes certain friends you hang out with, old habits like staying out late without notice, or any behaviour that makes them feel disrespected.  Many people enter relationships thinking they can continue living exactly as before. They hold onto the mindset of “I can do what I want.” That approach destroys trust and creates constant tension. A solid relationship requires both people to notice when their actions hurt the other and then make real adjustments.  This is not about losing your freedom or letting someone control you . It is about maturity. You choose to set clear boundaries with outside influences that bring stress into the relationship. You change small behaviors that cause problems. You stay aware of how your choices affect your pa...

The hardest truth for men to accept is that girls are genuinely okay with short-term romances. Girls don’t want commitment or long-term relationships. Girls just want to spin plates. Girls just want to drink the custard.  Girls just want to have fun. Accept the girl reality.  It is all ok. If that’s what you are…  And Providing you align.  INSECURE VAPID VERBOSITY?  No thank you…  And men?  when you do accept your own alignment?  Go find a real woman.  Who explores your mind.  Not a girl…  Who plays around… 

THINGS TO NEVER COMPROMISE IN A RELATIONSHIP: 1. Your self respect — love should never require you to shrink yourself. 2. Your personal boundaries — a partner who ignores them will only push further. 3. Your close friendships — isolation from loved ones is a red flag, not romance. 4. Your career and personal ambitions — the right person will celebrate your growth. 5. Your mental and emotional peace — anxiety should not be your baseline in love. 6. Your core values — compromising who you are to keep someone is not love, it is loss. 7. Your financial independence — never become fully dependent on a partner by force. 8. Your physical safety — there is no version of love that involves feeling afraid. 9. Your relationship with your family — love should add to your life, not cut it off. 10. Your right to honesty — you deserve the full truth, not a comfortable version of it. 11. Your ability to express disagreement — silence to keep peace is slow self erasure. 12. Your personal time ...

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Dr. Gordon Neufeld discusses the way our capacity for relationship is meant to develop and why this development is so necessary. Each of the six phases of attachment create a new way to connect to a range of people (from birth parents to life partners and your own children and everyone in between ... ).  For me, this wonderful in depth seminar really warms up around the 1 hour 5 minute mark and continues so until the awesome summary.  Skip there if time is short and you are busy...  If not, grab a coffee, get comfy and listen.  The life long extensive attachment research that Dr Neufeld generously shares in this broad ranging talk is simply fascinating. Or is that just me...? Relationship Nerd Alert... So happy to Be that too.  Especially the juicy bits on "premature digital intimacy"... made enormous sense in this "permanent part time attention" era of the fractious digital age. AKA lack of presence ... lack of consciousness... lack of depth and awareness... la...