"Needs" versus "Neediness". The Difference Is Both Starkly Subtle and A Finely Felt Blunt or Harsh Energetic Intent.

It’s normal to have needs in relationships. 

You can be whole & autonomous but still want to feel and see and hear your relational needs are listened to, received and met where mutually possible. 

Non violent communication is the key. 

You can be fiercely in your power, independent and sovereign— and still know you deserve attention, presence, support, tenderness, beauty, kind words & softness, in the safe container of your shared romantic relationship. 

Don’t let a "partner" (maybe really a "project") tell you you are *needy* when you directly, clearly and openly communicate your togetherness needs to be shared, heard and received. 

The NVC practice works, and is one that opens up deeper, more trusting levels of emotional intimacy. Which leads to more aligned, flowing connections in all aspects of a whole, conscious relationship. 

From 

connected wholeness, 

not 

attached neediness. 

From Love

NOT

For Love.

Enough is always enough. 

In a simple, common, ordinary and everywhere committed fully conscious, openly communicated, truly emotionally intimate and joyous, open hearted trusting relationship. 

“The best parts of her, are all of her.”

The naughty, the nice, the smart, the spice. 

The angry, the sad, the good, the bad.

Accepting it all, invites her to do the same.

And she deserves that.

Because the best parts of her, are all of her.