From Love Not for Love, Simple!
Love is not enough to relate.
It is a prerequisite
of course
But love alone is not how relating
aligns.
Love never breaks
If LOVE is embodied TOTALLY
Relating May break
But then it was never love!
And ALL of these are perfectly human and
Awesome reasons to mutually relate
With or without heart to heart soul to soul whole consciousness
But these relation ships may not also be love ships
And that’s also ok
One whole
Consciousness,
from love not for love
May include two whole beings
Two aligned beings
Two beings of bliss
Two beings without conflict crisis or drama
Many “relationships” do not come FROM LOVE
instead they are for mutual for love
Selfish means
To an end
Ego to ego
Whilst two dis integrated egos are comfortable
The needs of two far from whole egos are mostly met
Many relationships REMAIN in unconsciousness
And that is ok. Included. Accepted. Materialistic.
Shallow. Ok. Ego to ego. Ok. Limited or narrow. Ok.
Part time, week on week off like a parenting plan. Ok.
Still not divine or sacred. All Perfectly ok.
Relationships can go on like that for a lifetime
Till death do us part
Contractual obligations
Certified by an outside agency
Ego to ego terms & conditions attached
Disintegrated ego to disintegrated ego attached
Relating relating relating
Maybe even growing towards consciousness
But still far from
Whole
Complete
Total
Divine
Sacred
All that’s ok.
Not everyone knows or realises or even wants such a love.
For them self.
A lack of self love or self awareness
is often hidden in conflict within relationships.
If you are aware, a total absence of conflict and violent communication is the base on which both whole partners join together in sacred communion.
Tender
Adoring
Affectionate
Gentle
Joyous
Wild
Strong
Fierce
Consistent
Considerate
Compassionate
Whole
Total
Sensual
Shared solitude
Serene
Sexual
Shared stillness
Divine Eros
Shared silence
Parenting shared if children are chosen
Responsible
Soul Connection not ego head attachments
Accountable
Non reactive
Authenticity
Kind
Direct
Fully aware of patterns
Catch energy early
Surrender to your own true nature
Self awareness prevents conflict escalating
Self awareness realises if listening open heartedly
There is nothing to realise
Support not validation
Warmth and listening
Priority of quality time
Priority of consciousness as the bare minimum love language
Priority of not settling for less
Spontaneity fun joy light heartedness
Direct non violent communication
Calm peace deliberate intentional
Create and hold space mutually
Create and hold space if the other is struggling
Moment to moment
Check in regularly
Ask how is your heart feeling now?
Planned shared adventures
Sensuality
Touch
Hugs
Kisses
Sex
quality shared time
give YOUR best NOT your all,
FROM love not for love
from FULL love
Shared in community
from TOTAL love
Shared with mutual friends
from WHOLE love
Shared with children
from ABSOLUTE unwavering LOVE
Shared because THAT is who YOU already are!
ONE full life
from love not for love
ONE total life
Priority of mutual daily devotion in creative forms
ONE whole life
Priority of mutual daily adoration in creative forms
ONE complete life
from LOVE not for LOVE
Relating May or may not contain some or all of the above
RElating may be FOR love,
for needy, for clingly, for comforting, for controlling, for contesting.
for conflicting, for comparing, for competing, for love
NONE of which comes FROM LOVE
One whole full total absolute unwavering
Compassion
forgiveness
connected considerate ONE whole life shared with &
towards a partner
maybe not just a pick up half life weak on weak off fuck buddy
a limited project,
used for limited mutual needs
all OK of course
all included of course
NO moral judgments here at all
just do NOT call it from love...
and lie to your own soul and lie to your own heart
From love simply means fullness
From love simply means two fully wholly re integrated egos
From love is not ascended spiritual ungrounded religious by pass sinning goo roo woo woo
From love is not love n light AND ignore or forget the dark
From love is all of you
FROM love includes IT all,
messy mad mighty sad and down and dirty bad
can YOU create infinite INNER space AND grace
to HOLD YOUR OWN
First?
From love is simply an excuse of sharing your overflowing love
From from from love
Not
for for for love
Take take take
one sided taking all you can get
If relating ends or breaks or continually stretches
It was never from love
It may have been for love
the relating snaps and conflict ensues.
from LOVE has NO conflict
EVER!
consciousness realises that if a problem still exists
I AM IT!
so stop blaming shaming and projecting YOUR un healed dis integrated far from whole ego onto the Project... who you may THINK is a partner... why the conflict then?
a lack of consciousness?
still self ignorant?
far from whole?
only YOU will realise when YOU get sick and tired of the patterns of crisis chaos drama REPEATING
Relating IF IT BREAKS may have been;
For love
To satisfy a specific need or
Convenience or
Comfort or
Co habitation or
Economic rationality Or
Lust or
To seal up an insecurity leak or
Loneliness or
A staid fear of being alone or
Anxiety or
Opportunistic hook ups or
A stuck neediness or
A mutually convenient fuck buddy or
Any other head attached reasons for LOVE
From love
has NO REASONS ATTACHED
EVER!
FROM LOVE DOES NOT COME FROM
The head
Or a dis Integrated ego
FROM LOVE IS all OPEN HEART TO OPEN HEART
FROM LOVE IS TENDER SOUL TO TENDER SOUL
CONSCIOUSNESS is
SIMPLE
COMMON
ORDINARY
EVERYWHERE
ONE SIMPLEST
THING ON EARTH!
The struggle may be in being simple… dropping all that you are NOT
returning to
Values
Priorities
Consistency
Direction
Intentional
Graciously
Once FROM love
is embodied as ONE FULL TOTAL WHOLE
consciousness
Love as consciousness does not break
Love as consciousness does not leave
Love as consciousness does not ever go away again
Love as consciousness remains without chaos or crisis or harsh drama
Once you are FROM love
whole and overflowing
ONE full
ONE complete
ONE totally absolutely re integrated unfractured unlabelled fresh risen full unleaky energetically grounded wise simple common ordinary everywhere consciousness that includes a sound NON dis integrated EGO
A consciousness then relates to another consciousness
simple
common
ordinary
intrinsic
everywhere
from love NOT for love
once we get out of our own way.
and return to who we have always been
which we all already are
that is the paradox of consciousness
THE greatest LOVE language and THE only LOVE language
THERE IS NOTHING TO REALISE!
