TRUST MY SELF 💯% BELIEVE THEM THE FIRST TIME

WHY LIMITED PEOPLE KEEP STAYING IN YOUR LIFE

You’re not attracting LIMITED people because there’s something wrong with you. 

LIMITED people test everyone. 

They look for kindness they can exploit, 

silence they can control, 

and boundaries they can slowly push past.

The real question isn’t why they entered your life. 

The real question is why you kept making room for LIMITING ATTACHED MIND behaviour that was MISALIGNED, holding you back or even draining you.

Sometimes we confuse compassion with obligation. 

We keep giving chances because we see the beautiful wounded person beneath the so called external labels, the trauma, the past inter generational inherited damage. We see their current choices and we try to help, save, fix or advise. We do that from a misplaced obligation of saviour complex, people pleasing or perfectionism. We are essentially interfering in their journey, their karma, their choices and priorities that only they can address. 

We may even tell ourselves they’ll change if we love them enough, explain ourselves better, or remain patient a little longer. Unfortunately some people are not meant to evolve or integrate and return to who they have always been.  These limited people (mostly not evil, not toxic, not bad) may be perpetually destined to stay limited; stuck, staid, cloistered mind attached to one good book of limiting beliefs.

But understanding someone’s limitations does not mean you have to become the place where they unload it. You do not have to lower your standards or go against living your best life just to appease or people please, instead, simply let them be, nursing perpetual avoidance hang overs, mind attached to none sensical creeds, remaining self ignorant of the simplest thing on earth. Their own true nature. Their own human kind. Their own human being. Their own human consciousness. 

Awareness of integration simply begins when you stop trying to prove that you’re loving by tolerating what is misaligned with your own heart and soul. Yes the body is the portal to the soul, we simply grow more aware, more attuned, more aligned and trust our own true nature, These warm gentle Boundaries aren’t punishment. Nor are boundsries harsh prison walls. Setting healthy aligned boundaries and Walking away isn’t cruelty. Protecting your peace doesn’t make you cold. In fact to chase something you already are is a sure sign of madness. Or self ignorance. It’s like the fog chasing its own tale… thick, pea soup, vague and hidden in the missed! Why get caught in someone else’s foggy people pleasing, someone else’s addictions, external labels and attached mind limitations? It simply dies not make sense? So simply do not go there, 

People are always revealing who they are.

Listen. 

Pay attention, 

It becomes crystal clear and ever so obvious who already knows their own true nature. 

Integrated, 

Whole. 

Aligned  

Fresh free and flowing. 

No limitations; whinging, moaning, over sharing grasping, performing, facades of overly intellectual artificial intelligences… stuck up in ivory towers of thought police control… surveillance. Projection. Scared, scarred and limited Ala 1984 style  and that’s more than ok, simply love them more from a mutually aligned safe distance. And let them be. Accept them exactly as they are. Right now. Limited, lovely and possibly still gunked up with back in my day attached mind stories. Let them be. Let it be, accept does NOT mean to agree. 

Your moment to moment observation is to simply keep paying attention to any misaligned limitations, the possibly stuck, the maybe staid, the conditionally cloistered people pleasers and perfectionists who may attempt to project an intellectual attached fear, dump an unresolved anger, jealousy, anxiety or depression onto you. Observe but do not absorb. Listen but do not react. Simply hold your own space and share your life overflow with them. Smile gently, nod and accept, then do whatever the fuck you were going to do anyway, do not get sucked into any one else’s limited pity party or self ignorance or inability to be response able, account able, and emotionally secure in their own grounded, unwavering, warm hearted, non people pleasing, sovereignty.

Simply love the limited More (without losing your self) 

From Love, not for live, from a mutually safe distance. 

And for fucks sake simply believe them. 

Whole heartedly believe them, 

The first time, 

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